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DON’T sext, bbm, or Facebook me… Just Call Me!

14 Mar

Call me old-fashioned, but since when did TALKING (like out loud) on the phone with a new prospect become a thing of the past, a cliché, and non-existent? We are missing out on that true character development that comes out through simple conversation.

Now don’t get me wrong, the Red Flag Minor is sometimes guilty of this too, and like everyone else, is lost in translation once in a blue moon. The learning curve when talking vs texting is steep, however it is just better for both persons. Having an actual verbal conversation is a great way to connect with someone new. You get their tone of voice, quirky sounds, and actual laughter! Isn’t that much better than “LOL”, “Haha”, or having to use the * symbol when you want to convey an emotion?

I mean, I get it. In today’s society, time is of the essence. It is much easier to simply type what you want to ask or say, over taking the time to call and chat a bit. Everyone will do what’s easier and more convenient. This is sad to me, especially when trying to potentially build a new relationship.

We are all too busy to chit-chat with one another. Soon we will forget how to converse back and forth and be a bunch of mumbling idiots! Cant’ wait! Omg, Lol, jk, Rotfl, Lulz, Lmao, etc…. *sigh

Advice: Next time you meet someone new and maybe want to see/date them in the very near future, don’t text, sext, bbm, or Facebook them. Give them a call instead!


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7 Responses to “DON’T sext, bbm, or Facebook me… Just Call Me!”

  1. Katie_LA 03/14/2011 at 7:13 PM #

    Hey great advice!! I just hate when guys text too much… Stop being a pussy and just call me!!

    Cool site!

    • Minor 03/15/2011 at 10:05 AM #

      Katie_LA, that’s it! See guys just do it, the ladies are ready!

      Thanks for your comment.
      Actually, give me your number. Ill call you.

  2. Guy who loves Sexting! 03/15/2011 at 9:54 AM #

    Let’s be honest, I don’t want to talk or chat with a girl whom my only interest is to Smoosh. So sexting works for me. Talking is just…. eew, i can’t go there. In fact I wish I could just bbm all during our date or night together! Yes.

    Good article though, I’m just new school…

    • Johnny Niggabrix 10/14/2011 at 5:51 AM #

      Capital ‘S’ on ‘Smoosh’? It’s not even a word. You fuckhead. So good luck with the Smooshing. You’re going to need a lot of it.

      I don’t know, the way you say ‘eew’ sounds kind of sissy and gay, so maybe you’re trying to tap into the lesbian market? Again, good luck with that, champ.

  3. Kat 03/21/2011 at 11:57 AM #

    I agree with this article and, in fact, have written about the same topic. Too much can be lost in translation with texting or emails. I’m so tired of guys who will text or email but never pick up the phone to call you.

    • Minor 03/21/2011 at 1:32 PM #

      Hi Kat! Thanks so much for commenting. This should be a hot topic for the younger generations. It will only get worse I fear.

      Stay well

  4. JenC 03/22/2011 at 7:47 PM #

    Yep! so true!

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